Showing posts with label Live and Learn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Live and Learn. Show all posts

Thursday, September 18, 2008

It's Good To Have Friends

I just have not had it in me to gather my pictures and thoughts and spare moments enough to write out a big post about the conference. So, to tide you over until I get my act together, a few pictures.



This year, for me and the girls, Live and Learn was about friends, seeing old ones again and making new ones. Too bad there is just never enough time to spend with everyone. We had to savor every moment we had. Until next time...

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

The Trip Phase II

The saga continues...

Tuesday dawned bright and early for us. We had breakfast with C's parents and bid them farewell to begin our drive to the conference. We took the northern route through Tennessee. We had to stop at Cracker Barrel for lunch, of course. No road trip is complete without that, especially one in TN! I had a little detour planned for us before we got to the conference site. We passed through Asheville, NC and I wanted to make a stop at the Deltec Homes model home. I really want a round house! C agreed it would be nice after walking around inside one. Yea!
The kids were anxious to get to the conference, even though we were a day early, so we made it a quick stop and got back on the road to head to Black Mountain. As it was getting late, we got some dinner at a chinese restaurant before making our way to the Blue Ridge Assembly. This was a big change for the conference, moving out of a hotel and onto a mountainside, but as we drove up the road taking us to the heart of the grounds, we were excited for the new adventure to begin. It was so beautiful and serene and so many things about that place reminded C and I of places we had been before. Even the color of the porch floors (blue) reminded me of home (my mother always painted our porch floor blue)! It felt like HOME.

We checked in and unpacked the car and started seeing friends who had arrived early as well. We walked around the grounds and explored a bit, and hung out in the lobby of the main hotel where we were staying, talking with people and getting acquainted. A was determined to meet some new friends and she got off to a great start! The next day our friends, Flo and family, were due to arrive, but A did not want to stay safe and hang with only people she already knew.

Wednesday morning we got up to go out for breakfast, since the meals for the conference did not begin until lunch. When we got back, Flo had arrived and we showed them around and helped them get settled. Then it was time for lunch in the cafeteria. We joked that our kids don't need to go to school to know how to navigate a cafeteria now! It was an adventure to find food the girls would fill up on, but they survived the weekend. Next year we will have more snacks and stuff in our room, but I was proud of how the girls handled the limited food choices. A really surprised me with how willing she was to try new things!
That afternoon was spent playing around with tie-dye, henna, balloons, and temp tattoos, meeting and greeting folks, playing in the stream, and listening to great music on the porch of Lee Hall. After dinner there was the bonfire down by the lake. It was just Flo, A and I who went. E and Flo's daughter C wanted to play Hannah Montana in our room, so my dear husband volunteered to stay close by (he was not allowed in the room). We had a nice time singing campfire songs, eating marshmallows, and listening to ghost stories with our "tribe".
After a morning of cheerleading and beading for the kids, my dad and step mom were due to arrive sometime Thursday afternoon. The kids were loath to leave the hotel area because they wanted to meet them when they arrived. So, they set up in the Untreprenerial fair area and sold their wares. E had made four pairs of earrings at the bead funshop that morning and wanted to sell them. Talk about an opportunist! She made 100% profit on those earrings! Course she did turn right around and buy a pair of earrings from another lady later with that money.

My dad arrived and we helped them get settled in. There was to be a group photo taken that afternoon on the steps of Lee Hall. So, as an intro to the wonderful unschooling community, my dad and step mom got an eyeful of the colorful crowd when we gathered on the steps for the picture. That night after dinner was the first talent show. No one from our group was to perform that night, but E was signed up for the next night. It was the best Live and Learn talent show I have seen so far! Everyone was awesome and the support and love from the crowd was as palpable as ever.
I realize now that I can't remember all the details well enough to continue this play-by-play account. So, I'll turn this account over to the pictures and add comments to fill in the rest.


E pumping up a balloon at the Balloon Madness funshop.
A's elegant balloon hat.
Tie Dye extravaganza : Holly Dodd sharing a little of her green dye with A when the bottle of green was scarce.

Squeezing out the dye.

A's sunburst henna tattoo.

My pretty henna design.

After Jon Kream's speech, he invited us all to paint outside the box on this canvass. The finished work of art was auctioned off in the raffle.

E and a new friend entered the talent show Friday night, singing and dancing to a Hannah Montana song. This is a shot from the practice session earlier. I got video of the actual act. Talk about a proud mama. Need I say she was great?!!

C and I after my speech on Saturday. Don't I look happy? Everything went well and I actually enjoyed the experience, no matter what my stomach said that morning!

The beautiful Smoky Mountains as seen from the porch of Lee Hall.

Saturday afternoon beading in Lee Hall with my step mom.

One last shot of the girls, before Flo and crew headed out Sunday. Such a colorful bunch!

The end of conference picnic would not be complete without Nitrogen Ice Cream ala James.

The infamous Marty Dodd, dueling cameras with me down by the lake at the picnic. Who got the first shot? I think it was a draw!

A, second from right, hanging around with new friends.
And so ends another L&L. As my henna tattoo fades, I hope for the experience of being together with my tribe to not fade too much until we can be together once again! North Carolina, here we come in 2008...

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Better Late than Never

Given that we returned home from the conference last Tuesday and that I am only now blogging about it, you have some idea of what an intense adventure it was! A bit of recovery was in order and some processing of the experience, too, before I could share it with you all. Not that my memory will be so good at this point, hence the post title.

We left on Monday and drove to Flagstaff, AZ for the night. Some of our friends had the same plan so we met up with them that night at the hotel and swam in the pool together. The next day we went into the old historic area of town to help our friends find a couple letterboxes. They were both down by the train station. The girls enjoyed watching the trains rush by and we even put some pennies on the tracks to squish them.

After we did that we all drove down towards Sedona, stopping at Slide Rock State Park to explore for a bit. There was a spot where the Oak Creek cut through sandstone and made all these cool channels. The rock was covered with some slippery algae and you could sit in the water and slide. We did not have our bathingsuits, but the girls got in anyway and had a blast. A kept saying, "I'm having the time of my life! Aren't you having the time of your life!?" to her friend S. It was hilarious! I just enjoyed sitting and looking at the beautiful scenery, with my feet in the cool water.

We spent the rest of the day shopping in Sedona in all these cool little shops. I got the girls some dreamcatchers and they bought some rocks with their money. We had dinner there and headed back to Flagstaff for the night. The plan was to go swimming in the pool, but neither family had the energy and so we crashed for the night.

Wednesday we drove into Albuquerque, NM. When we arrived at the hotel, all our other friends were there hanging out in the lobby. It was quite the reunion! The girls were so excited to see their friend M again. We all went to the Ice Cream Social and then made plans to head into Old Town for dinner. There were four families and we found a Mexican restaurant that would seat us all together. They actually stuck us off in a private group area, so it was perfect. We were all heady from the excitement of being together for the conference.

Thursday was the first day of funshops and talks. I can't really report too well on what the girls did, as C was there to support them and I got to attend the talks I was interested in. I listened to Sandra Dodd and Diana Jenner talk that morning while C and the girls went around to various funshops. That afternoon, we had the Entrepreneur funshop where the girls and I were going to sell things we had made. I had my eyemasks and A had some bead jewelry and bead "wormies". E had only two pieces of jewelry to sell. A made quite a few sales, and E sold one necklace. She was not too happy with that, but she learned that you need a big inventory to get a lot of sales. I sold a few eyemasks. I was a bit distracted since my fireside chat was next. I did not feel prepared, but it went well. Not as I had thought it would, but good just the same. I knew that Kelly had planted someone in there to see how I did, and she confirmed later that she had. I told her I could see myself talking for an hour next year... We'll see.

That night was the first of two talent shows. E and her two girlfriends were going to do a hulahoop act, but not until the next night. We watched the show and afterward, since it was still early, the girls all practiced on the stage and then in the hallway when the main room was shut down for the night. They picked out the music: I Like To Move it, off a mix my brother made for A for her second birthday. They were really getting into it, doing all kinds of tricks like turning around or jumping or moving sideways while hulahooping. It was great fun to watch!

Friday was more relaxed for me especially since I was done with my big commitments. I am not sure what happened that day other than the Artist Trading Card funshop. That was way cool! The girls had fun, I had fun, and I even traded all my cards, all three I made there, for some pretty cool art! After dinner the big talent show was going to happen. The girls were excited and a bit nervous. It was killing A to not be doing something, so she ended up agreeing to go up on stage to help with her friend M's magic card trick. Before the show started, the girls and I went into the ladies bathroom next to the main room where the show was held to do the girls makeup. They had this cool area with vanities and a big mirror and a comfy couch. The first picture is of the bunch of them hanging out there. Then the next shot is E up on stage doing her thing for the talent show with her friends. I could not have been prouder! She kept that hoop going for the whole entire duration of the song. They were one of the first acts up, so the audience was quite peppy and clapped along with the music. They, of course, got big applause when they were done. It was quite a while before M got called up for her trick. I was proud of A for going up on stage, even if she did not do anything but point to rows of cards and confirm the selected card was hers. She was disappointed later that she had not done anything "more", but she did not know what that more could be. Even though she is a beautiful singer and dancer, she says she can't do that. So the search is on for another talent for A. It was late when they got done, so we headed for bed.

Saturday, I got up and got myself to one of the talks I was interested in, Danielle Conger. It was great and I chatted with her afterward until C came to check on me. We swapped out so he could listen to the next talk while I went to the Barbie skirt funshop with the girls. It was good to be there helping my girls and being with them. We went to lunch with M and her mom. That was nice to catch up a bit, as I had not seen much of them, with all of us going different directions. C and I got to sit in on a fireside chat together that afternoon. Afterwards, I was pretty wiped out so I went back to the room to rest and ended up watching a movie. I needed to save up my energy for the dance that night. We had such a nice time dancing together as a family, after we got E feeling better about the loudness (a little food does wonders). It was fun to watch the kids and teens and parents, and even some grandparents, all dancing together. Not something you see everyday, but oh so wonderful. I think that was my favorite part of the conference.

Sunday morning was Sandra's other talk, but first we went to the fairy flower crown funshop because I needed one for the picnic that afternoon. The girls showed me how to do it, since they had already made theirs earlier. We ended up having to say goodbye to all our friends before lunch because they all needed to head for home and were not staying for the picnic. That was a bit of a bummer, but we made the best of it. Lunch was out at this awesome pizza place and then we went to Old Town to visit the Rattlesnake Museum. That was cool, even if A had to avoid the tarantulas. I was feeling so happy from the whole conference I even bought the girls stuff in the gift shop without making them use their allowance. That and I had sold another 8 eyemasks that morning!

The picnic was in a park just down the road a block from the hotel. One of the dads had arranged to make ice cream using liquid nitrogen at the picnic. That was way cool! You would think with how fast it froze, that it would be grainy or something, but it was very smooth and creamy. The fog of nitrogen as he mixed up the icecream was straight out of a mad scientists lab. Very cool. The girls were without their friend's and had not made any new friends really, so I was enlisted to come and play with them. The play structures at the park were pretty neat. It had this pyramid shaped thing that was very smooth so the kids could slide down it. They figured out that you could climb up it if you stayed to the ridge, as in the picture here. They tagged along after Holly Dodd, Sandra's daughter, for a while, and she played with them. I was talking with Sandra and she asked if I wanted to see her house. She said she had been to my house twice and thought she owed me a tour. I said sure, so we arranged to take Holly home for a pitstop after the picnic and she would show us around. I think the girls enjoyed that the most, because they had been excited to see Holly again and they finally had her full attention! Sandra was there showing another friend when we arrived, so we got the grand tour. After seeing Holly's Barbie closet under the stairs, we now have to plan one of those into our next house!

We took Holly back to the hotel and made plans to go down to the hot tub before it closed for one last dip. Holly joined us and we had a nice time chatting with the familes that were there. We met two from Alabama. C was quite pleased to know that even Alabamians unschool their kids! I think he needed to know that he was not the only one!

Monday morning it was time to head for home. It was hard for me to leave the conference. I had had such a great time, but I also felt it went by too quickly and that I did not get to do half of what I had planned to do. The girls were sad as well. They had had a wonderful time. Even C was talking about next year! We will be there for sure!

We drove to Flagstaff that day, stopping to see the petrified wood and dinosaurs along the way. The girls enjoyed all the dino statues and I got a kick out of all the "woodchips" being actual stone. There was petrified wood everywhere. The rockhound in me was pleased. I loved this shot of the girls with one of the dinos, under the big, big sky. Gotta love those puffy white clouds.


Tuesday we made the final drive home and our trip was over. Boo hoo. Until next year...